Parents should not be blamed?!
Recently, the nation is very concerned about the case of the missing of an 8 years old girl, Nurin who ended up was the girl who was brutally sexually assaulted and killed.. Me too, is really very sadden by this case and wondering why would this heartless beast can do such thing on a little girl.. My condolences to Nurin’s family.. I think if the police managed to nab this beast, he should be punished in the same way.. Stuffing a papaya into his a**hole? I’m not joking, I just think that whipping, life term jail or even a death sentence is not enough for such beast.. Whether the murdered little girl is Nurin or not, a kid does not deserve anything like this..
I have another thought here.. I’ve read yesterday’s malay mail which Nurin’s father mentioned on ".. parents should not be blamed as they could not chain their children to prevent them from wandering around." I know that I won’t understand the grief that the family is facing now, but I do know that, at least if her parents have pay more attention on her, this thing may not happen.. Many parents think that having kids is just an easy job.. "Oh, I love kid, I would like to have babies" then just give birth to them and that’s it…
I’m living in an apartment unit, and I always see little kids wandering around and playing by themselves alone, inside or outside the apartment compound.. I always think that if I randomly grab one of them and bring them away, will anyone actually notice? Are their parents really concern on their safety? I know maybe the parents are just too busy on their works or taking care of the younger kids.. But is that mean that they can leave their own children do everything they want? They just too small to understand the dangerous of the society.. As parents, you gave birth to them, you have to take full responsibility on them.. If you can’t do it, then don’t ever think of having kids, you will only ruin them..
Don’t talk on if they will be abducted or what, just look at the kids that left by themselves near our housing area, they were playing with many types of dangerous things especially the firecrackers.. Sometimes I also saw an "elder sister" walks with her younger sister back home from school, which their ages are actually just one or two years gap difference.. OMG, if sekali abduct both the kids, then really bye bye la.. As I saw, these things happened more often among the Malays.. Don’t misunderstand, I don’t mean any discrimination or what here.. But the fact is there, they have many kids to be taken care of, but they are busy with making money or even their housechores.. So they just make the kids play among themselves outside the house…
The case of Nurin gives very good warning to parents out there, You really have to take good care of your children.. Your responsiblity is to protect ur kids from anything, I mean ANYTHING… Do anything you can before you regret on something bad happens to them, as we can see, the society is not safe anymore.. I really do not hope to read any of this kind of news in the paper anymore… T.T
September 23rd, 2007 at 2:08 am
hmm.. If cannot take good care, then don’t give birth lor..but then, nobody wish for this tragedy…
On the other hand, I wonder why our police so free to charge on the negligent of the parents. They should spend more time on looking for those Maniac..
but then, like what my mum said, even catch them also no use, they freed the suspect just like the Ooi Ying Ying’s and the “body-in-fridge” case.. =.=